I wish the stigma about alcoholism could be dead and buried, and alcoholism understood and accepted for the illness that it is.
I’m a recovered alcoholic, sober since my first meeting in 1994. I wish that every AOD worker would attend at least one meeting, and/or read the basic text of the program, to educate and inform themselves of this wonderful way of life and incredible worldwide fellowship based on love and service.
The 12 steps are a way of life, rather than an abstinence program. A spiritual way of life based on ancient and ageless, timeless principles that people who live well have used for thousands of years. Who wouldn’t want to live a life based on principles such as honesty, hope, surrender, courage, integrity, willingness, humility, love, responsibility, discipline, awareness, and service.
It astounds me that the AOD sector systems will put people on 10 week waitlists to see one counsellor and not refer each and every one of those people to meetings, so they may access help and support immediately. The help is available 24/7 via online platforms as well as every day of the year in face to face meetings, including public holidays and weekends, when funded services are closed. Too many alcoholics are dying when there is an incredible free and confidential service available. The evidence is there, it’s still around 89 years after it began.
The attempts by those in authority to police our language also hurts. We’re told we’re not allowed to use our language and our words. Words like alcoholic and addict help us to define and understand our problems but attempts to silence our language only serve to further stigmatise and marginalise people who have these afflictions. Please don’t tell me what words I can and can’t use to describe and understand myself and others.
I wish the stigma about alcoholism could be dead and buried, and alcoholism understood for the illness that it is.